“And the Lord said unto Cain, Where is Abel thy brother? And he said, I know not: Am I my brother’s keeper?” – Genesis 4:9
Last month, I made an unexpected trip to visit a part of my family that I rarely get to see. The last time I saw my cousin, he had two babies. Now, he has four children ranging from age two to thirteen, and another is on the way! As I spent time with his whole family, I was delighted to discover how well-mannered his children are. They are respectful of adults, caring toward one other, bright, and fun. The older ones did not seem to find the younger ones annoying, and no one was left out during playtime. They did spend plenty of time wrestling on the floor—they are, after all, just kids—but even the wrestling was good-natured.
After talking with the eldest child, I learned that they are all home-schooled, and the older ones help the younger ones with their studies. The five-year-old is learning his numbers from big brother, and big sister is teaching him about letters. The thought came to me that having the older siblings teach the younger siblings has probably contributed greatly to the caring relationship they have. The older two really want the younger ones to succeed, and are willing to give of their own time and energy to help.
Spiritually speaking, Christians are diverse in terms of spiritual maturity, yet God has a place for each one in His family. His Word exhorts us to love our brothers and sisters, and to receive those who may be “weak in the faith” (Romans 14:1). The Bible also says, “bear ye one another’s burdens” (Galations 6:2), and, “love one another” as Christ has loved us (John 15:12). In this sense, each one of us is to be our “brother’s keeper.” When we encourage one who is new in the faith, or one who struggles to be established, we edify the Body of Christ and we ourselves are uplifted.
To love the loveable is not difficult; as Christians, our job is to love the unlovable. That includes those who may have hurt us in the past, or perhaps have unpleasant or bothersome tendencies. We are to show love to them as Christ showed love to all who came to Him—everyone from murderers to lepers and hypocrites. Our compassion and mercy should override any aversion to the less than appealing, and the one who needs love the most must be shown the most love.
Love is an action, not an emotion. As our brother’s keepers, we lend our strength to the weak, lift up the poor in spirit, and pray for one another. It is wonderful to see brothers and sisters care for each other in this way, and it is even better to be a part of it.
