In
Praise of Christian Mothers
“Her
children arise up, and call her blessed.” – Proverbs 31:28
The word
“Mother” is a term of endearment for a special woman. She is that
one who nurtures and cares for you. She is the one who teaches you
manners and how to clean your room. A Christian mother is a wonderful
beginning to a child's heritage. My own mother brought me up to
look to God in everything, and my two grandmothers were beautiful
examples of Christian women.
Growing
up, I had the most romantic ideas about my Grandma Sally, who was
a “missionary” in a “foreign land.” Until recently, I never realized
the depth of commitment and sacrifice she had to make to go to Korea
. Once, she gave a testimony during a trip home and related how
God had called her to the mission field. While praying, she thought
of her three-year-old granddaughter—her only granddaughter at that
time—who would be growing up while she was gone. Yet, she was willing
to do God's will, and left her children and grandchildren to go
into the harvest field to which God had called her.
As I listened
to her, I envisioned Abraham's willingness to offer Isaac on the
altar, trusting God's promise that, because of his obedience, he
would be blessed. Not only Abraham, but his descendents and all
the nations of the earth would also be blessed. God was able to
use my grandma because she, too, obeyed God and put Him first. Many
were saved because of her willingness to give everything to Him;
among them were countless souls in Korea and many of her own children
and grandchildren, including that three-year-old granddaughter—me.
My Grandma
Crysta lived near us for a good part of my growing-up years. She
was a wonderful example to me of generosity—everyone was always
welcome in her home: family, friends, and even her children's friends.
She always had cookies ready to serve visitors. Everyone felt special
at her house. She is still a great encouragement to me in my walk
as a single mother, because she had to walk this path too. The Lord
has honored her trust in Him and has seen her through many difficulties.
In this
present generation, there is much to be concerned about in raising
children, but the grace of God is always bigger than any temptation
or trial. As we pray with our children about their concerns and
watch their faith in action, our faith is increased. And when they
see us go to God in prayer, talk about His goodness, and practice
what we believe, their confidence in God is reinforced. That is
how we do our part as Christian parents. Being faithful to God in
our callings as mothers and fathers will bring His blessings upon
us and our children.
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